Saturday, August 28, 2010

Tonyo’s Shopping (and Wish!) List

My former boss and now “client” Nanette took me baby stuff shopping yesterday afternoon. Being a 3-time mom, she was quite familiar with newborn essentials (but maybe not quite updated with newer technologies, like disposable liners for baby bottles and those nifty portable cribs/playpens called “pack and plays”, hehe). Nanette and the salesperson were surprised when I told them I haven’t really finished my layette shopping. “Ma’am, tapusin nyo na soon kasi in a few days baka hirap na kayo maglakad!” the salesperson warned me when I told her that I was entering my 35th week. Soo… I am panicking right now. Haha.

The shopping trip was a good catch-up experience with Nanette (who, by the way, just got promoted from Senior Manager to Assistant Vice President of one of the country’s top banks! Woohoo! This only proves that Nice Girls CAN Also Get a Corner Office!) and earned our Tonyo a very nice Baby Mickey terry cloth hooded bath towel and wash cloth set, and a cool KoziBlankie crib comforter/ bolster pillows and flat pillow set (blue, with a sun / moon / stars design.. I just love them!) I wouldn’t have bought these items for ourselves, so thank you , thank you ma’am!

I’ve had this baby essential list for a while – so maybe it’s about time I get serious with it! My best friend and maid of honor Gladys is also organizing a baby shower (she was also the one who threw me a bridal shower!)… so maybe I’ll try and coax her to look at my list ... wink, wink! At this time, only my clothing list is somewhat complete. Uh-oh.

NEWBORN CLOTHING

Kimono (newborn) – 1 pc ok, need 2 more
Sando – 1 pc ok, need 2 more
“Going out” shirts – We probably won’t take Tonyo out much during the 1st few months so we’d appreciate slightly bigger stuff!
Pajamas
Mittens / gloves – ok , 3 pairs
Baby socks – ok , 4 pairs
Baby booties – ok, 2 pairs
Baby hat/ cap – we have one cap with an elephant. I love it.

DIAPERS

Cloth lampins – we plan to be somewhat environment-friendly and use disposeables only when traveling
Disposeables – have no idea what to get
Pins/ Clips -

FEEDING

Milk/ Formula - wish: breastfeeding :-) is a breast pump really necessary?
Feeding bottles – wish: I want Pigeon or Avent , 3 small ones and 3 slightly bigger ones
Nipples – hopefully, Pigeon
Bottle Brush
Sterilizer – my boss says he’s going to give me his son’s
Burp cloths – ok c/o Memi who went into a sewing frenzy
Bibs
Receiving blankets – maybe 2 pcs?

BATHING and CLEANING

Baby wipes – or maybe do it the old school way? Cotton and water in a Tupperware container!
Rubber mat/ waterproof pad
Diaper rash ointment – wait for what the doc says
Baby Bathtub
Bath products – I was thinking Human Nature’s chamomile baby wash, but depends on what doc says
Hooded towels – 1 pc from Nanette! Maybe get 2 more
Wash cloth – 1 pc from Nanette, have to get 2 more
Baby Nail clippers

FURNITURE and GEAR

Crib or Cradle – have to get a wood one for Binan and we really, really want a Pack and Play for Boni. Pack and Plays start as cribs for the newborn and convert into a playpen for growing babies. These can also be folded into a very portable size (like a duffel bag). We’re looking at Disney and Enfant brands. WISH WISH.

Infant Car Seat – Tonyo will be shuttling to and from Binan and Boni a LOT. Safety first.

Diaper or Baby Bag – my dream is a Coach bag, hehe. But Tita G from the States is bringing us something, I can’t wait!

Stroller – Wishing for a Graco. I really want to scout for a reversible one (the one you can push with the baby facing you) Oh – or maybe something with a drink holder for the mommy. Hehe.

Baby carrier – Got an RJelly Sling from Kiel! (have to figure out how to use it tho.. I can’t even put Mia in it. Hehe)

Baby Toys , Baby Books, Baby Music (I’m curious about the Baby Einstein Tag Along Tunes)

Thermometer

Anyway, moms out there – did I miss out anything from my shopping/ wish list? Of course, these are “needs” – I have TONS of “wants” and “nice to haves” in my mind!


Thursday, August 26, 2010

BPI helps companies go "greener"

BPI+Sustainable+Energy+Finance+Program+for+SMEs

BPI supports the private sector to practice sustainable business through investments in energy efficient and renewable energy technology. The program was entered for this year's G20 Ashoka Changemakers Challenge. Please click the link above and feel free to explore other ideas around the world that help improve the SME industry! We will definitely entertain your questions and info requests if you join the on-site discussion. Thank you!

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Getting Into the Saving Habit

It's been a while! Just a brief update, we're now on our 34th week and the doctor says it is not surprising if I give birth on the 2nd week of September. Uh-oh, we're not ready yet! I have to think of my maternity leave and the onslaught of expenses. One of the sites that I frequent while pregnant is www.babycenter.com - and I think the featured article today is a perfect match for me. It's all about savings! These are stuff that one knows about , but sometimes, just can't get into the habit of! I'd like to share it with you :-) because I think it will help you and your family, pregnant or not!

10 Easy Ideas to Get Into the Saving Habit
http://www.babycenter.com/0_getting-into-the-saving-habit-ten-easy-ideas_1497539.bc?showAll=true

Log your spending habits for one month
It doesn't take a miracle to save money. It's as simple (and as difficult) as figuring out how to spend less than you earn. But before you can cut your spending, you need to know exactly where your money is going.So, for the next month, keep a log of all your daily, weekly, and monthly expenditures. Use a little pocket journal to jot down notes as you go, just as if you were keeping track of expenses on a business trip.Prepare yourself for some sticker shock. That harmless morning latte you buy on the way to work can add up to a tidy $60 a month, or $720 a year, or $7,200 in ten years — a nice chunk of savings. If your drink of choice is bottled water, fill your eight daily glasses at the tap instead and you could pocket up to $1,400 a year. And those impulse baby clothes purchases you put on your credit card? Tack another 20 percent onto what the price tag says — that's how much interest charges could cost you unless you pay the bill in full each month.You don't have to go without caffeine, and you can still dress your baby in adorable outfits — just be smart about it. If you can't afford the cafe on the corner, keep a stash of ground espresso at work and make your own pseudo-lattes (microwave ovens do a respectable job of steaming milk). Never leave home without a full, reusable water bottle. Wait for those baby clothes to go on sale, and give yourself a cash limit when you shop.

Pay yourself first
It may seem counterintuitive, but the secret to getting into the savings habit is to put yourself first. That doesn't mean buying every CD or kitchen gadget that catches your eye — it means including yourself among the regular creditors you pay every month.Set some realistic long-term goals and then "pay" yourself by putting money aside in a savings or investment account on a regular basis. If you wait until the end of the month to see what's left over after paying for essentials and shelling out a few more dollars here and there for extras, you (like most people) will probably find that there isn't much left.Don't give yourself a choice. Set up your retirement, emergency savings account, and college fund with automatic monthly transfers — no matter how small— from your paycheck or checking account. Like nightly tooth flossing, regular saving is a healthy habit that accrues over time and becomes a routine you can't live without. And at the end of each month, you'll have the immediate gratification of knowing you socked something away for the future.

Stagger your savings due dates
Most IRAs, college accounts, and other savings options allow you to pick your own date for automatic withdrawals from your checking account or paycheck. Stagger these dates to make sure all the money isn't transferred out of your account on the same day.If you're paid every two weeks, tie one withdrawal to each payday. If you're self-employed and money comes in throughout the month, pick a couple of dates in the middle of the month at a time when you're not paying other bills.

Pay down debt
You've heard it before, but it still may seem hard to believe: Paying off your debt is one of the best ways to save money. That's because the interest you pay on most loans (particularly credit cards) is much higher than the interest you earn with most savings options. So get rid of as much credit card, student loan, auto loan, and other personal debt as you can (a home mortgage loan should be your one big debt), and then start saving.For more on paying off and consolidating debt, see our guide.

Be your own loan officer
When you finish paying off a loan, keep making the monthly payments — to yourself. Put them into a savings account or, better yet, set up an automatic withdrawal for the same amount into a higher-yield investment account.

Motivate yourself with a big-ticket goal
Pinpoint what you really want (a new sofa, a DVD player, a vacation) and what it will cost, then set a realistic goal, such as giving yourself six months to save for it. Cut out pictures that illustrate your goal and put them on your bulletin board at work, on your refrigerator at home, and in your wallet. Every time you think about buying new shoes or towels, ask yourself whether you want or need them as much as what you're saving for.

Open a savings account you can't touch
Save for even bigger purchases, such as the down payment on a house or car, by putting chunks of savings into certificates of deposit (CDs). These accounts offer virtually no risk, they earn higher dividends than plain old savings accounts, and the money must stay in the account for a predetermined period of time — so you can't get at it whenever temptation strikes.

Start a loose change jar

Put a jar — preferably a large one with a narrow mouth, so you can't get your hand into it — in a prominent place, and empty your pocket or wallet change into it at the end of the day. If you can't stand the thought of rolling coins, use the change-counting machines available at some supermarkets when the jar is full. At the end of the year, this found cash can add up to enough money to pay for a weekend getaway, a holiday gift, or a health club membership.

Sock away surprises

Anytime you get an unexpected windfall — a tax rebate, holiday bonus, or cash gift — put it into your savings account. You weren't counting on this money as part of your regular income, so don't spend it as such. Think of this as your Europe or new car account. Or, if you haven't gotten out of debt yet, use it to pay down credit cards and loans or make an extra mortgage payment toward the principal (which reduces the interest you pay over the life of the loan).

Step off the gas
It's pretty obvious that the less you put in your tank, the more you can put in your change jar or savings account. If buying a more fuel-efficient car isn't feasible, figure out how to cut back on your regular driving.Carpool to work or preschool if you don't already. Plan ahead and cluster errands instead of constantly jumping in the car. Walk to your destination or from store to store whenever possible. And for your next vacation, don't overlook the gems in your own backyard — consider exploring your own state instead of driving across a couple of time zones.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

A Day with Pigs


Our head office picked one of our bank's clients to be featured in our international annual report. This client is a multi-millionnaire pig farm owner, and he's getting richer by utilizing pig poop for electricity! Biogas at its best. As one of our posters say, did you know that garbage can pay your bills? (In this case, poop will pay your bills!) This farm owner uses his methane to power his whole farm and uses Meralco only as backup.

Quick note on what our company does: we help commercial banks understand energy efficiency and renewable energy projects so they can lend money to companies who want to "go green" and also save money in the process. (I think that's as simple as I can get) I usually do our marketing materials, presentations, case studies, awareness partnerships, and most of the time also keep track of the loans and our program's development impact (greenhouse gas emissions, energy savings, etc..)

Anyway, our company sent a New York-based photographer to do the pig shoot. Since I am the local contact person, I had to arrange for the shoot. I missed going on trips like this! I used to have lots of fun doing our AFI shoots before. The farm was based in Bulacan and I was quite starstruck with our photographer because he's the type that wins New York photography awards and shoots for NatGeo Adventure magazines. The past 3o days he has been shooting around the world in countries like Yemen, Uganda, Afghanistan, Ethiopia, India... whew. I had to remind him what country he was in!

It was a tiring day and my boss kept on reminding me that I was pregnant (he finally got tired of it and decided to stay under the shade and not follow us around) . But it was great being "award-winning photographer's" assistant even for just a day. I told him that I once dreamt of being an employee of National Geographic even if it was just for lugging camera equipment around. He used a Canon EOS 5D with a multitude of lenses. I got to hold a Canon G11 to do some video and some "supplementary" shots.



The farm owner was so accommodating and pleasant, that it as hard to believe that he was a multi-millionnaire. He still keeps his relationship with the bank even if he doesn't need financing anymore. He now pays for his investments in cash. It feels really great to be part of an organization which helps create opportunities for small businesses!

I look forward to developing more success stories like his. Sorry I can't post photos until the annual report comes out!

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Love + Reunions + Reminiscing

MY HIGH SCHOOL BEST FRIEND JUST GOT MARRIED!

It is a given fact that weddings are all about L-O-V-E. Weddings are also occasions where precious reunions happen. The wedding was held at the picturesque Caleruega Chapel in Batulao (too bad it was raining.. good thing it stopped after the ceremony and we were all able to walk out comfortably), and the reception was held at the equally beautiful Balai Taal (the other side of town..) A few special high school friends were there – and yes we took a lot of photos. As I reviewed the photos, I itched to look for similar ones from wayyyy back when .. we were younger than our (still !!!) young selves now.


Em and I were inseparable in high school. We were almost sisters. I spent a lot of my time hanging out (Sleeping? Living?) at their house in LB (I lived in a dormitory but Em’s mom adopted me most of the time). One holy week and summer break, I adopted her and we stayed at our home in Tagaytay. My parents took us to see the beautiful Caleruega Chapel, where Em said, “Hanna, dito ako ikakasal!” And sure enough, Em kept her promise and got married to her Kyle in Caleruega last July 31, 2010. I did the first reading during the ceremony (less stress for a pregnant woman, said Em) and I couldn’t help hold back the sniffles as I saw her walk down the aisle. Our happy high school memories flashed back in my mind! Grabe, ang dami naming pinagsamahan!
Our high school barkada, called 3.14 (for Pi, or P.I. - ahah, remember we were high school during the time when rock bands were making a come back and it was super rebellious to say bad words in songs. We thought the play on Pi was cool. Go figure) was composed of myself, Em, Gladys, Tin, Mel and Ros. Tin, nasan ka na ba??? Anyway, as of 2010 – we have two single ladies remaining! Mel and Ros, we’re rooting for you.


Ralph was the girls’ ever reliable driver that evening. Ralph – everybody’s friend! He’s super close to all our high school groups, and I think has never missed a batchmate’s special event. Invited talaga sya lagi sa lahat. And … I am proud to say that he was my prom date during my junior year (wink!)


Even Mio was there! The “Brendan Fraser” of our youth, hahaha. He was 2 years ahead of us in UP Rural High, but we still became friends. I don’t recall how, but I know Em had something to do with it. I had no idea that we had this “old” picture, but I accidentally found it when I was looking for the others. A welcome addition to this then and now collection.

The rain and mud that day did not dampen our spirits, (although it ruined some of our shoes! But I’ll let Sylvia blog about that! ;-) my net connection is soo bad, I can't upload more photos anymore huhu ). We are all so proud and happy for our Em, “the little duckling that could.”

(and now that I have retrieved a lot of old high school photos, HS friends, get ready to be tagged on Facebook... bawal un-tag!)

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